Feeling like you're about to EXPLODE?May 25, 2020
I WAS CHATTING WITH A FRIEND THE OTHER DAY OVER A CUPPA, ABOUT US WOMEN, AND MUM’S IN PARTICULAR, AND HOW WE OFTEN FEEL LIKE A PIECE OF OURSELVES IS MISSING…. LIKE HOW SOMETIMES WE’RE JUST NOT EVEN SURE WHAT LIGHTS US UP ANYMORE…
There’s an emptiness you know? Not to mention the feeling like you’re about to freaking EXPLODE with the frustration, the confusion, the overwhelm, the UN-easiness that is infiltrating your life as a mother, as a woman?
It’s pretty common… I used to beat myself up about being unsure of myself, frustrated with myself, ask myself why, why can’t I get my shit together, why can’t I be decisive and carefree and just, well, happy? Why does it seem so hard?
Then I began to look back, looked at all the tough times I’ve endured, some simply just shit times, some beautiful (like having children), but tough because they come with a whole new set of rules that don’t even make sense!
THERE’S BEEN ABUSE, DEPRESSION, LONELINESS, ILLNESS…. OF COURSE ALL JUMBLED IN AMONGST THE FALLING IN LOVE, THE FUN, THE ADVENTURES… AND I’M SURE IF YOU REFLECT BACK ON YOUR LIFE YOU’LL SEE MUCH OF THE SAME.
When I really reflected on this I realised OF COURSE, for frick’s sake, don’t be so tough on yourself! These things are all going to impact the way I look at the world, the way my mind and my emotions react to certain situations… and some things will just never make sense.
And that’s ok.
What needs to happen though is an acceptance, a forgiveness and a RE-alignment of self to confidently move FORWARD in life. With a crystal clear forward focus about what YOU WANT in your life for the next chapter.
IF YOU DON’T WRITE YOUR OWN STORY, SOMEONE ELSE WILL.
I want you to know you’re not alone with feeling like something is missing, like you’re a little lost, like you’re not sure what lights you up anymore…. and I want you to know that it is totally possible to find that missing piece, or pieces, that have been chipped away over the years.
You CAN replace the confusion, overwhelm and uneasiness, not to mention the self-doubt with clarity, control, flow, ease, confidence, purpose and passion!
I’m here to say don’t quit on YOU! Everyone needs to do a little work on themselves sometimes. You are SENSATIONAL, it’s time for YOU to shine!
SO HERE IT IS… THE MEDICINE, THE ELIXIR, THE REMEDY YOU NEED TO MAKE SURE YOU DON’T EXPLODE INTO A THOUSAND PIECES AND SCATTER ON THE FLOOR FEELING LIKE YOU’LL NEVER BE PUT BACK TOGETHER AGAIN….
It’s time for you to CRUSH IT and DANCE gorgeous… Crush the doubt, dance with the fear and find an inner bubbling of BLISS – because the great news is if you are LOST you can be found, every.damn.day.
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